Hi. I can't help my adult son. I've got to help me. I could list the litany of behaviors and concerns I have about my son-but I am exhausted. I want to stop and get off his merry-go-round. I love him fiercely. But I can't help him. Can I please let go? How do I show love and care without complete severing of the relationship? I want out of his mind, it is driving me crazy.