Hello, I am new to this site and I need help. My daughter K is 6 years old and has been difficult to deal with most of her life so far. We have had a psychiatric evaluation and was diagnosis ODD, possible early ADHD and anxiety. We had been seeing a counselor for 4 months, and when the she met K's alter ego we call "Suzie", she actually said "I don't know". What? The Psychologist that did her evaluation rec. a new counselor...can't get in to see him for a couple of months. So here is the problam. She is out of control. I can't get her to do anything for herself when she is in Suzie mode. She's very sassy, talks nasty and refuses to cope. If she doen't get what she wants she just melts down. Someimes she has difficulty leaving me. Had to escort her into school today, and practically run away from her. She flips out at school and other social places and I am worried she will never have friends We are trying to elimate artificial dye from her diet. MRI and EEG show normal brain structure and function. HELP! Although I am on anti-depressants, I am just very unhappy! I feel like we are doing everything we are supposed to do, but it just doesn't help. She shows little remorse and is not motivated by anything that can't be had right now. I could go on for hours, but I will leave it at this. I need help for what to do on a day to day basis to get her to comply.