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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 704661" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>You obviously agonized over the details of the will trying to be fair and rational......I don't think that is controlling, I think that is loving and thoughtful. None of this is black and white, we all have to maneuver through this as well as possible for our own well being and you've done a good job of it.</p><p></p><p>Because of my difficult daughter, I agonized over our will too. Like you I hated doing it, however we worked through it and after much ruminating we found a plan that felt right.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>That's the bottom line isn't it? "Acceptance of the reality of the situation." Sigh. Mamacat, we're all doing the very best we can....... and it's hard,.......what would be a relatively simple task for parents of typical kids becomes monumental for us......let yourself off the hook and as you said, </p><p></p><p></p><p>Go spend it having fun!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 704661, member: 13542"] You obviously agonized over the details of the will trying to be fair and rational......I don't think that is controlling, I think that is loving and thoughtful. None of this is black and white, we all have to maneuver through this as well as possible for our own well being and you've done a good job of it. Because of my difficult daughter, I agonized over our will too. Like you I hated doing it, however we worked through it and after much ruminating we found a plan that felt right. That's the bottom line isn't it? "Acceptance of the reality of the situation." Sigh. Mamacat, we're all doing the very best we can....... and it's hard,.......what would be a relatively simple task for parents of typical kids becomes monumental for us......let yourself off the hook and as you said, Go spend it having fun! [/QUOTE]
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