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<blockquote data-quote="Waitingforamiracle" data-source="post: 760918" data-attributes="member: 25449"><p>Thank you Busy, You are of course right. We had a good chat with a police officer last night who advised us that if he did it again we would be able to escalate it into a crime. We don't want to ruin his life so if he did it again I would tell him that that was his last chance, we were blocking him, not to contact us again and that if he ignored that and sent a third intimidating message we would automatically escalate it and he would be receiving a visit from the city police. </p><p>As well as this, we are upgrading security on our home and remainng vigilant. But until that happens, I am holding out that maybe this time he will realise he needs to sort himself out. He's never been actually violent, just manipulative, psychologically abusive and creates drama. I think it's incredibly childish and stems from a sense of powerlessness. But as he gets older I do worry that his mental state may deteriorate, or on the other hand he may be just shamming his "crazy" state and pull himself together. I want to give him this chance. I am on my guard and realise I'm probably on to a loser here...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Waitingforamiracle, post: 760918, member: 25449"] Thank you Busy, You are of course right. We had a good chat with a police officer last night who advised us that if he did it again we would be able to escalate it into a crime. We don't want to ruin his life so if he did it again I would tell him that that was his last chance, we were blocking him, not to contact us again and that if he ignored that and sent a third intimidating message we would automatically escalate it and he would be receiving a visit from the city police. As well as this, we are upgrading security on our home and remainng vigilant. But until that happens, I am holding out that maybe this time he will realise he needs to sort himself out. He's never been actually violent, just manipulative, psychologically abusive and creates drama. I think it's incredibly childish and stems from a sense of powerlessness. But as he gets older I do worry that his mental state may deteriorate, or on the other hand he may be just shamming his "crazy" state and pull himself together. I want to give him this chance. I am on my guard and realise I'm probably on to a loser here... [/QUOTE]
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