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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 760925" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>Waiting...You are like most of us here who want to soak up a moment of being treated as we should. How we settle for simply being called Mom & Dad. Like that's some big moment in time. We are so used to being called names and verbally abused and pulverized into a million pieces when they tell us things like, "you help me "bare minimum" only so you can feel like a good person". Bare minimum? Most of us have paid rent, bought cars, food, etc. They hurt us and attack us verbally when things don't go their way.</p><p></p><p>I've received the "nice" texts that treat me as I should always be treated and if I didn't respond in a timely manner as if all was well and nothing happened, then the next text, all bets were off. Trust me if you give it much longer without replying, he's likely going to lash out at you. It's just oddly enough how it seems to go. They give you a little time to see if they've sweet talked you into giving them money and when there's no timely reply, they are ugly and angry again.</p><p></p><p>I'm not telling you what you should or shouldn't do but don't get lost in a moment in time thinking he's feeling all the things you're feeling. In my opinion, there has been no "healing" time on his part to get better since just a few days ago when he was threatening you. Real changes, that are permanent and long lasting take time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 760925, member: 23405"] Waiting...You are like most of us here who want to soak up a moment of being treated as we should. How we settle for simply being called Mom & Dad. Like that's some big moment in time. We are so used to being called names and verbally abused and pulverized into a million pieces when they tell us things like, "you help me "bare minimum" only so you can feel like a good person". Bare minimum? Most of us have paid rent, bought cars, food, etc. They hurt us and attack us verbally when things don't go their way. I've received the "nice" texts that treat me as I should always be treated and if I didn't respond in a timely manner as if all was well and nothing happened, then the next text, all bets were off. Trust me if you give it much longer without replying, he's likely going to lash out at you. It's just oddly enough how it seems to go. They give you a little time to see if they've sweet talked you into giving them money and when there's no timely reply, they are ugly and angry again. I'm not telling you what you should or shouldn't do but don't get lost in a moment in time thinking he's feeling all the things you're feeling. In my opinion, there has been no "healing" time on his part to get better since just a few days ago when he was threatening you. Real changes, that are permanent and long lasting take time. [/QUOTE]
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