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<blockquote data-quote="SearchingForRainbows" data-source="post: 10375" data-attributes="member: 3388"><p>So sorry to hear you had such a horrible evening!!! I can relate to what you said about husband not detaching from the situation. My husband has trouble detaching too. This obviously makes things so much WORSE!!! </p><p></p><p>difficult child 2 will just keep going and going and going, like the energizer bunny, if husband "feeds into" his tantrums. difficult child 1, prior to being put on Trileptal, would also keep raging but for different reasons. difficult child 1 LOVES conflict!!! He enjoys the utter chaos he causes. When calm, he says he sometimes does this out of boredom. Anyway, back to you...</p><p></p><p>I know how hard it is to stay detached. I exercise regularly so I can remain calm when difficult child 1 and difficult child 2 "loose it". Without daily exercise, I don't know how long I could remain calm listening to such endearing comments as "F-ck you, you B-tch"!!! Hang in there!!! I know how hard it is!!!</p><p></p><p>difficult child probably picks up the hateful comments from other kids and school. I know we certainly NEVER use any of the words that my difficult children use either. On a positive note, it is good that you and husband were able to talk about this afterwards. Although I am new here and don't know much about your situation, it sounds like you and husband have a good relationship.</p><p></p><p>Please do something nice for yourself today!!! I know this response probably hasn't helped, but I'm thinking of you and wishing you a peaceful night tonight... As I always say, "everything is subject to change...). Hugs WFEN</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SearchingForRainbows, post: 10375, member: 3388"] So sorry to hear you had such a horrible evening!!! I can relate to what you said about husband not detaching from the situation. My husband has trouble detaching too. This obviously makes things so much WORSE!!! difficult child 2 will just keep going and going and going, like the energizer bunny, if husband "feeds into" his tantrums. difficult child 1, prior to being put on Trileptal, would also keep raging but for different reasons. difficult child 1 LOVES conflict!!! He enjoys the utter chaos he causes. When calm, he says he sometimes does this out of boredom. Anyway, back to you... I know how hard it is to stay detached. I exercise regularly so I can remain calm when difficult child 1 and difficult child 2 "loose it". Without daily exercise, I don't know how long I could remain calm listening to such endearing comments as "F-ck you, you B-tch"!!! Hang in there!!! I know how hard it is!!! difficult child probably picks up the hateful comments from other kids and school. I know we certainly NEVER use any of the words that my difficult children use either. On a positive note, it is good that you and husband were able to talk about this afterwards. Although I am new here and don't know much about your situation, it sounds like you and husband have a good relationship. Please do something nice for yourself today!!! I know this response probably hasn't helped, but I'm thinking of you and wishing you a peaceful night tonight... As I always say, "everything is subject to change...). Hugs WFEN [/QUOTE]
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