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Time to kick my 23 year old son out?
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<blockquote data-quote="DoneDad" data-source="post: 711365" data-attributes="member: 17244"><p>If things are going to change, you have to change them. Your son and girlfriend have it made from their point of view - no work, no bills, food, shelter, car, drugs, money - all for free! Why would they want to make a change?</p><p></p><p>You've already set a deadline, but they expect you to not enforce it and don't take it seriously. You could give them another month, but they won't be any more prepared than they are now because they expect that you're not serious. </p><p></p><p>You know this isn't healthy for anybody involved. The only question is, how long are you going to let it go on? </p><p></p><p>If you kick them out in 3 days, they will kick and scream and try to guilt you into feeling bad enough to let them stay. If you wait a month, the same thing will happen. Or you could just let them stay forever. It's up to you. </p><p></p><p>If they're saavy about the law and depending on where you live, it might require some legal steps on your part to get them out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DoneDad, post: 711365, member: 17244"] If things are going to change, you have to change them. Your son and girlfriend have it made from their point of view - no work, no bills, food, shelter, car, drugs, money - all for free! Why would they want to make a change? You've already set a deadline, but they expect you to not enforce it and don't take it seriously. You could give them another month, but they won't be any more prepared than they are now because they expect that you're not serious. You know this isn't healthy for anybody involved. The only question is, how long are you going to let it go on? If you kick them out in 3 days, they will kick and scream and try to guilt you into feeling bad enough to let them stay. If you wait a month, the same thing will happen. Or you could just let them stay forever. It's up to you. If they're saavy about the law and depending on where you live, it might require some legal steps on your part to get them out. [/QUOTE]
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