My name is Elisabeth and I have been dealing with my daughter and her 'disability' since she was 2. My daughter has ODD with ADHD and I dont know what to do with her anymore. She is 5 and very out of control. When she was younger she was not an easy child and she has always been hard to deal with. She was just recently put on concerta and after a week I dont see a difference. Doctor tells me to give it time. Last night for the 1st time she slapped me and told me that she hated me. I dont know who she is anymore. It scares me!!!! She has a brother who is 18 months and she can be very mean with him as well. I am at my wits end and am about to cry. I am reading the books and trying to learn about this as much as I can but that still does not always help. Any Suggestions?? They will be greatly appreciated