I'm just frustrated so I thought I'd post and maybe it would make me feel better. difficult child has been complaining about his job since right after getting it. He isn't getting many hours (like 10-20 a week) despite being told he would get 35-40. So...I'm with him on that. He talks about looking for another job. I say little, trying to detach. Doesn't seem to be happening. Today it was that his manager is a racist and that he is encouraging difficult child (and his roommate at the sober house who also works there) to come to his house to drink. I don't believe difficult child. It's just addict-talk. Wish there was a spray for it. I just try to remain detached and get off the phone. However, I'll see difficult child on Tuesday (court) and I know he will want money. So, total detachment isn't possible. Argghhhh. I feel better. Thanks!