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Tired upset and I want to give up I’ve lost my self and my child
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 725639" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>It is fine to babble. Obviously you are distraught. I did find it hard to follow so I am going to ask some questions go maybe help us understand the situation better. Bear with me please.</p><p></p><p>1. Did you ever live with Dad? Is he in the picture?</p><p></p><p>2. Did Daughter have a chaotic first three years with many caregiver changes?</p><p></p><p>3. Had she ever been evaluated by a high level professional, such as a Neuro psychologist or a psychiatrist (the guy with the M.D.)</p><p></p><p>4. Ever have a bedwetting problem, cruelty to animals, or fascination with fire?</p><p></p><p>5. Did her behavior start with the pot and what did you do when you found out?</p><p></p><p>6. I am unclear on this. Does she live at home?</p><p></p><p>7. Do you tolerate when she abused you? How do you handle it?</p><p></p><p>8. Remove all of her electronics. She doesn't need access at home for her nudes. Have you thought of thst?</p><p></p><p>You are a loving Mother, but you have every right to be upset. Your daughter is being mean to you and is going off the rails and all of us react badly to all that. You also have every right to enforce your rules in your home. I tossed out my daughter's pot and cigarettes. My house/my rules. You have a right to take away all of her electronics even if she throws a toddler tantrum. If she touches you, call the police.</p><p></p><p>I would take her for an evaluation by a Neuro psychologist. If drugs are a big problem, think rehab, even for pot. Pot is not safe for all, like alcohol is not safe for all. Do you have any other kids? A SO? Is your family helpful or critical of you and abusive?</p><p></p><p>Hang in there. We are here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 725639, member: 1550"] It is fine to babble. Obviously you are distraught. I did find it hard to follow so I am going to ask some questions go maybe help us understand the situation better. Bear with me please. 1. Did you ever live with Dad? Is he in the picture? 2. Did Daughter have a chaotic first three years with many caregiver changes? 3. Had she ever been evaluated by a high level professional, such as a Neuro psychologist or a psychiatrist (the guy with the M.D.) 4. Ever have a bedwetting problem, cruelty to animals, or fascination with fire? 5. Did her behavior start with the pot and what did you do when you found out? 6. I am unclear on this. Does she live at home? 7. Do you tolerate when she abused you? How do you handle it? 8. Remove all of her electronics. She doesn't need access at home for her nudes. Have you thought of thst? You are a loving Mother, but you have every right to be upset. Your daughter is being mean to you and is going off the rails and all of us react badly to all that. You also have every right to enforce your rules in your home. I tossed out my daughter's pot and cigarettes. My house/my rules. You have a right to take away all of her electronics even if she throws a toddler tantrum. If she touches you, call the police. I would take her for an evaluation by a Neuro psychologist. If drugs are a big problem, think rehab, even for pot. Pot is not safe for all, like alcohol is not safe for all. Do you have any other kids? A SO? Is your family helpful or critical of you and abusive? Hang in there. We are here. [/QUOTE]
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