As a moderator and long time member here at ConductDisorders I would like to take moment to remind everyone of why we are here. We are "a soft place to land for the battle weary parent." No more and no less. We need to always strive to treat each other as such. No one on here is an expert but we are valiant warrior parents who love our children, both minor and adult, as much as any other parent. Please remember when replying to someone to take a moment to read what you have written before you hit the send button because words can hurt feelings. If you fear something may be misunderstood, maybe rewrite it. Or dont send it. Try to think if you would like to receive a comment that might upset you. Remember the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Thanks so much. I know we are a great team here.