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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 690165" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I too think nothing should be said, Nomad. As IC pointed out, you have not witnessed the friend's child's situation firsthand. I understand your concern about whether to tell the mother or not. There is so much more involved here than whether someone spends the night. It's a question of which other rules are being broken, and whether the friend's daughter is safe. One of the points you made is that the mother is very much hands on. She will know if and when the daughter's safety becomes an issue. So, you can say nothing, and can (and should, I think) honor your daughter's confidence with a clear conscience.</p><p></p><p>I would have wondered too, whether to tell the other mom.</p><p></p><p>As the others of us have said, your first loyalty, once you know the friend's child is not in imminent danger, is to your daughter, and to the trust between you.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 690165, member: 17461"] I too think nothing should be said, Nomad. As IC pointed out, you have not witnessed the friend's child's situation firsthand. I understand your concern about whether to tell the mother or not. There is so much more involved here than whether someone spends the night. It's a question of which other rules are being broken, and whether the friend's daughter is safe. One of the points you made is that the mother is very much hands on. She will know if and when the daughter's safety becomes an issue. So, you can say nothing, and can (and should, I think) honor your daughter's confidence with a clear conscience. I would have wondered too, whether to tell the other mom. As the others of us have said, your first loyalty, once you know the friend's child is not in imminent danger, is to your daughter, and to the trust between you. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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