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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 644465" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>There was so much I should address, but I'm going to stick to two things. Other's are much better qualified to address other issues.</p><p></p><p> </p><p>If this is not a man who abuses women, he will not be "pushed" to that point. The fact is, my ex, who was NOT a nice guy, never laid a hand on me in anger. He was abusive mentally, emotionally, and even threw things, but he never hit me. I even slapped him right across the face once when he was drunk and belligerent and I threw an iron at his head once (he called another woman and told her he loved her right in front of me - unwise when a woman has a iron sitting next to her. Luckily I throw like a girl). No one in my life has EVER made me that angry - it was NOT a good marriage - but he never hit me. If your daughter's ex is not an abuser, she won't turn him into one.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p>Cedar, it's the lawyer in me, but my first thought was, "Who has custody of these kids?" Some court order must exist. If it's him, her taking them and not going back is a crime.</p><p> </p><p>If it's her...well, sadly that is a different story and maybe one he needs to address.</p><p> </p><p>I am so sorry you are dealing with this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 644465, member: 17309"] There was so much I should address, but I'm going to stick to two things. Other's are much better qualified to address other issues. If this is not a man who abuses women, he will not be "pushed" to that point. The fact is, my ex, who was NOT a nice guy, never laid a hand on me in anger. He was abusive mentally, emotionally, and even threw things, but he never hit me. I even slapped him right across the face once when he was drunk and belligerent and I threw an iron at his head once (he called another woman and told her he loved her right in front of me - unwise when a woman has a iron sitting next to her. Luckily I throw like a girl). No one in my life has EVER made me that angry - it was NOT a good marriage - but he never hit me. If your daughter's ex is not an abuser, she won't turn him into one. Cedar, it's the lawyer in me, but my first thought was, "Who has custody of these kids?" Some court order must exist. If it's him, her taking them and not going back is a crime. If it's her...well, sadly that is a different story and maybe one he needs to address. I am so sorry you are dealing with this. [/QUOTE]
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