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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 637430" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>This will all pass. Somehow. And become better? ok? something we live with?</p><p></p><p>Read more: <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/today-hasnt-been-a-good-day.58896/#ixzz3GagBQpSG" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/today-hasnt-been-a-good-day.58896/#ixzz3GagBQpSG</a></p><p></p><p>I don't know why my quote bubble won't work anymore!</p><p></p><p>Yes, the crying and intolerable pain will pass. It will pass and you are doing the right thing by posting, reading the responses, and yes...crying. It is OK to look into your soul and air out the questions...but try too, to hear the answers. You didn't cause this. You actually can't stop it. (and I'm not even a 12 stepper!). </p><p></p><p>And yes...over time...with detachment..it does get better. You will have good days, weeks. Days you don't have any pain, not even a background ache...and at first you feel a bit guilty about those days. Then you'll feel bad again but it will pass more quickly, maybe not go as deep. Over time...yes, it becomes something we can live with. Because we must.</p><p></p><p>For me it reminds me o the deaths of my parents, my dad now 24 years ago, my mom 4 years. Awful excrutiating anguish, regret, guilt, gut racking tears at first. Then daily grief and dread. But now....I miss them. I am sometimes sad when I remember them. It feels like an old, nearly healed bruise. If I don't press it I don't even notice it. If I do press it...it reminds me that it is there, but it is OK.</p><p></p><p>You will be OK too.</p><p></p><p>Hugs today,</p><p></p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 637430, member: 17269"] This will all pass. Somehow. And become better? ok? something we live with? Read more: [url]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/today-hasnt-been-a-good-day.58896/#ixzz3GagBQpSG[/url] I don't know why my quote bubble won't work anymore! Yes, the crying and intolerable pain will pass. It will pass and you are doing the right thing by posting, reading the responses, and yes...crying. It is OK to look into your soul and air out the questions...but try too, to hear the answers. You didn't cause this. You actually can't stop it. (and I'm not even a 12 stepper!). And yes...over time...with detachment..it does get better. You will have good days, weeks. Days you don't have any pain, not even a background ache...and at first you feel a bit guilty about those days. Then you'll feel bad again but it will pass more quickly, maybe not go as deep. Over time...yes, it becomes something we can live with. Because we must. For me it reminds me o the deaths of my parents, my dad now 24 years ago, my mom 4 years. Awful excrutiating anguish, regret, guilt, gut racking tears at first. Then daily grief and dread. But now....I miss them. I am sometimes sad when I remember them. It feels like an old, nearly healed bruise. If I don't press it I don't even notice it. If I do press it...it reminds me that it is there, but it is OK. You will be OK too. Hugs today, Echo [/QUOTE]
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