Our son showed up today after 1 week without contact, I'm not sure what he was thinking. I met him at door and said "your stuff is packed up, you can take it. He said what do you mean? I replied, you can't stay here anymore, you haven't called in a week. he has no phone but could have borrowed. You've broken every rule. (Respect us and our property-he had gone through my drawer and helped himself to 25.00, stole gasoline out of barn, cursed any time he was confronted, had his previous girlfriend over when no one was allowed in and today while getting his things together, I found a straw, clear baggies and "chewed" edge old insurance card-I know what this is-even doing THAT in my basement?) He got abusive, in my face- f***ing every other word. I asked if I would need to call police. I did tell him to also take his dog. One of our other sons showed up unexpectedly just after he went downstairs and quickly caught on to the issue and held me as I cried. I'm sure his presence leveled the field some as he was calm and has been a friend to this one. My husband got home five min. after he left. Now we have received mult. texts from ex girlfriend's phone asking us to take dog "just for few days so it won't be out in the cold" what lengths will they go to keep holds on us? They know at this point, i really feel sorry for dog only. we didn't answer texts.