...and I'm super stressed. Husband and son driving from Georgia today to Tennessee. Son texted last night that he read bad reviews on line about the place. I couldn't find anything. Then I replied that there are bad and good reviews on everything. Husband called later and told son - when I was on phone to "quit texting your mother; you're with me now". I woke up to a text from son at 5:30 am "I'm not going to that place". I did not respond - then after 20 minutes "If I can come home I'll join National Guard". What?? I did not respond. Husband called a bit later while he was in lobby getting coffee and said son is giving him a hard time too. He firmly told him he must do this if he wants to move forward and have his family in his life. Husband is a bit worried naturally because he hasn't "seen" where son will be living/staying. He told him that he is NOT leaving Memphis with him. I'm sure my son is a bit stressed about the unknown. I told my husband not to even call me. Just get him there. Son texted a while ago to "please give me a chance". I said "I'm at work and very busy and everything will work out. This program is designed for people exactly like you". OMG I just want this to be over. He's trying to manipulate us. He was in Florida 1.5 years and NO CHANGE.