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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 721367" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Agree ladies.</p><p></p><p>Son just called me. Husband inside. Son did not say anything about it not being nice or in a bad neighborhood. I told him his problem is that he doesn't think he needs help and he said he does need help but he feels this place is over the top. They call each other brother etc. He wanted to go into a place that uses insurance.</p><p></p><p>I said no. We've done that for years and they haven't helped. Too many distractions. That he has no idea how much stress this is causing us and if he doesn't stop it we'll both drop dead and he won't HAVE a HOME to worry about!! I told him I know how much he loves us and doesn't want to hurt us and <strong>that alone </strong>proves that he needs help because I know he doesn't want to do that yet he cannot control it. Also reiterated that many go there in lieu of prison and we are trying to get him to see the light so he doesn't end up down that road. We are giving him the tools. If he uses them or not is his call.</p><p></p><p>They have no distractions there. He said he will try it. So I'm hoping husband will be leaving there soon. I am expecting a call from my husband when he leaves. Very stressful day for him I'm sure. </p><p></p><p>Copa we had tried to get him to join the National Guard or to do something - anything with his life after high school years ago so I think he thinks that's the magic word. Nope.</p><p></p><p>I need a drink.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 721367, member: 15032"] Agree ladies. Son just called me. Husband inside. Son did not say anything about it not being nice or in a bad neighborhood. I told him his problem is that he doesn't think he needs help and he said he does need help but he feels this place is over the top. They call each other brother etc. He wanted to go into a place that uses insurance. I said no. We've done that for years and they haven't helped. Too many distractions. That he has no idea how much stress this is causing us and if he doesn't stop it we'll both drop dead and he won't HAVE a HOME to worry about!! I told him I know how much he loves us and doesn't want to hurt us and [B]that alone [/B]proves that he needs help because I know he doesn't want to do that yet he cannot control it. Also reiterated that many go there in lieu of prison and we are trying to get him to see the light so he doesn't end up down that road. We are giving him the tools. If he uses them or not is his call. They have no distractions there. He said he will try it. So I'm hoping husband will be leaving there soon. I am expecting a call from my husband when he leaves. Very stressful day for him I'm sure. Copa we had tried to get him to join the National Guard or to do something - anything with his life after high school years ago so I think he thinks that's the magic word. Nope. I need a drink. [/QUOTE]
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