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Told our difficult child not to come home for holidays, feeling regreted but we just had to...
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<blockquote data-quote="pacific ocean" data-source="post: 702742" data-attributes="member: 21010"><p>Tanya M, using your words for home, "home is a place you should feel safe," we feel awful not being able to give her a safe place. We wish we knew her innate issues long before she reached the age she is now and did something better. She has been blaming on us for her being this way and we are famous for bad parents among people around her. It's been hard because of the culture difference too. My mother offered us to take her for upcoming holidays because she is ready to commit her life for her if that helps her. She also told me being a terrible parent not taking her because I am not committed. Sigh... I feel guilty too but we think we have tried and done things we could think of. We were never strict. We had given her all the freedom for her to handle but we have come to the point to realize it's not working but going to worse. </p><p></p><p>Appreciate your hugs. I really needed those. Thank you very much!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pacific ocean, post: 702742, member: 21010"] Tanya M, using your words for home, "home is a place you should feel safe," we feel awful not being able to give her a safe place. We wish we knew her innate issues long before she reached the age she is now and did something better. She has been blaming on us for her being this way and we are famous for bad parents among people around her. It's been hard because of the culture difference too. My mother offered us to take her for upcoming holidays because she is ready to commit her life for her if that helps her. She also told me being a terrible parent not taking her because I am not committed. Sigh... I feel guilty too but we think we have tried and done things we could think of. We were never strict. We had given her all the freedom for her to handle but we have come to the point to realize it's not working but going to worse. Appreciate your hugs. I really needed those. Thank you very much! [/QUOTE]
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