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<blockquote data-quote="More2Life" data-source="post: 715251" data-attributes="member: 22043"><p>Update... the tears were good but for the emotional hangover the next day. I felt stronger and not so anxious for my daughter although still very worried for grand kids. She actually called but we did very little talking, mostly talked to my grand daughter while Mom was cleaning? My daughter made no apologies for the week long rendezvous out of state, of course. We had actually made a plan or so I thought that she would be coming to the city I'm in right now. Well she spent all her money to come here going to the rainbow gathering instead. Surprisingly I didn't offer to pay her way here as I normally would have and I'm rather shocked she hasn't asked, "yet" that is. I had a job lined up for her 2 weeks ago and now it's been filled so ??? She did say she should have come here instead. Well, doh! Yes, she should have but she made her choice. </p><p></p><p>Apparently she's parked her RV in a friend's driveway for now. Druggy friends of course, all of her friends are. I really don't have a big issue with pot as I do know many people it seems to help but I do have an issue with it being illegal in this state and she shouldn't be using it if it's illegal, period. </p><p>Oh' and she told me that when she went there she was pulled over for lights not working and that the cops ransacked her RV looking for pot but she didn't have any, thank god! I do hope that put some fear and sense into her. I think it may have, just a little. Between that and my not being so codependent as usual maybe she will start thinking more like an adult and not expect Mom to pay her way. </p><p></p><p>I expect to be seeing her in a week or two and going to try to encourage her to go to counseling and I'm going to check into it, too.</p><p>Thanks again for all of the help, support and encouragement. It really makes a difference as I have no one else to talk about these persona issues.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="More2Life, post: 715251, member: 22043"] Update... the tears were good but for the emotional hangover the next day. I felt stronger and not so anxious for my daughter although still very worried for grand kids. She actually called but we did very little talking, mostly talked to my grand daughter while Mom was cleaning? My daughter made no apologies for the week long rendezvous out of state, of course. We had actually made a plan or so I thought that she would be coming to the city I'm in right now. Well she spent all her money to come here going to the rainbow gathering instead. Surprisingly I didn't offer to pay her way here as I normally would have and I'm rather shocked she hasn't asked, "yet" that is. I had a job lined up for her 2 weeks ago and now it's been filled so ??? She did say she should have come here instead. Well, doh! Yes, she should have but she made her choice. Apparently she's parked her RV in a friend's driveway for now. Druggy friends of course, all of her friends are. I really don't have a big issue with pot as I do know many people it seems to help but I do have an issue with it being illegal in this state and she shouldn't be using it if it's illegal, period. Oh' and she told me that when she went there she was pulled over for lights not working and that the cops ransacked her RV looking for pot but she didn't have any, thank god! I do hope that put some fear and sense into her. I think it may have, just a little. Between that and my not being so codependent as usual maybe she will start thinking more like an adult and not expect Mom to pay her way. I expect to be seeing her in a week or two and going to try to encourage her to go to counseling and I'm going to check into it, too. Thanks again for all of the help, support and encouragement. It really makes a difference as I have no one else to talk about these persona issues. [/QUOTE]
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