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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 702481" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>It's not mean. You can't control or stop any of it and you didn't cause it. These are not rational people that you can brainstorm solutions with. You'll just get blamed if you try. Sounds like even little grandson is getting sucked in and is either hearing or thinking wrong.</p><p></p><p>Is there any way to move far enough away to avoid this craziness? You are not obligated to be a part of this.</p><p></p><p>If daughter writes anymore, send letter back unopened and don't answer the phone when she calls. Don't read her texts. There is no reason to subject yourself to abuse. Oh yeah...for your sake don't read her FB. That is where they often do the most damage to us. We gain nothing by being an audience to an angry person with a personality disorder.</p><p></p><p>Holding your hand...it is normal to want safety, peace and sanity in our lives. Sometimes pur family is toxic to us through no reason of pur own and we need to take breaks and severely limit contact. There is nothing you can do to help them but YOU can still move on and, yes, eventually find happiness and serenity. I hope you take good care of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 702481, member: 1550"] It's not mean. You can't control or stop any of it and you didn't cause it. These are not rational people that you can brainstorm solutions with. You'll just get blamed if you try. Sounds like even little grandson is getting sucked in and is either hearing or thinking wrong. Is there any way to move far enough away to avoid this craziness? You are not obligated to be a part of this. If daughter writes anymore, send letter back unopened and don't answer the phone when she calls. Don't read her texts. There is no reason to subject yourself to abuse. Oh yeah...for your sake don't read her FB. That is where they often do the most damage to us. We gain nothing by being an audience to an angry person with a personality disorder. Holding your hand...it is normal to want safety, peace and sanity in our lives. Sometimes pur family is toxic to us through no reason of pur own and we need to take breaks and severely limit contact. There is nothing you can do to help them but YOU can still move on and, yes, eventually find happiness and serenity. I hope you take good care of you. [/QUOTE]
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