timer lady
Queen of Hearts
kt has been extremely RADish (for lack of a better term) this week. Every determining factor of Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) has popped up again big time & she's been in my face. Angry, demanding, hurtful, dramatic, one minute a teen - the next a toddler with toddler like behaviors.
(On the plus side, no dissociative states to be reported.)
Personally, I'm past caring about the Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) stuff - about how pitiful her early childhood was. She's taking advantage of my memory issues to create chaos, recreate rules; manipulating the household rules saying that I told her it was okay. I'm always pretty sure I wouldn't say something like that but with my memory/cognitive stuff I cannot remember.
kt is mimicking my speech issues; laughing about it to therapist & anyone outside the family.
I think that was the straw that broke something in me last night. No matter how horrible you've had it there is never any reason to be be hurtful to another. I told husband I want kt in a MITH home by next month. I'm never going to get well at this rate & kt is manipulating, using my condition & raising hell in the meantime.
husband is angry with me because of this; he keeps reminding me of the symptoms of this disorder - the memory & psychiatric issues that can occur. He feels I'm depressed (you think?).
And I had to remind husband that young ms kt has husband wrapped about her little finger.
(On the plus side, no dissociative states to be reported.)
Personally, I'm past caring about the Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) stuff - about how pitiful her early childhood was. She's taking advantage of my memory issues to create chaos, recreate rules; manipulating the household rules saying that I told her it was okay. I'm always pretty sure I wouldn't say something like that but with my memory/cognitive stuff I cannot remember.
kt is mimicking my speech issues; laughing about it to therapist & anyone outside the family.
I think that was the straw that broke something in me last night. No matter how horrible you've had it there is never any reason to be be hurtful to another. I told husband I want kt in a MITH home by next month. I'm never going to get well at this rate & kt is manipulating, using my condition & raising hell in the meantime.
husband is angry with me because of this; he keeps reminding me of the symptoms of this disorder - the memory & psychiatric issues that can occur. He feels I'm depressed (you think?).
And I had to remind husband that young ms kt has husband wrapped about her little finger.