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<blockquote data-quote="in a daze" data-source="post: 651257" data-attributes="member: 15832"><p>Hi there. We all get it.The frustration and the disappointment...</p><p></p><p>There is one common theme that runs through the stories on this message board, and that is when we stopped helping them, when we made it clear that they were not welcome to live with us anymore, when we stopped giving them money, when we stopped trying to fix all their problems for them, when we started putting OURSELVES first, it was only then, that many all though not all of our wayward adult children started to slowly improve.</p><p></p><p>A therapist to help you both deal with your daughter and take care of yourselves is helpful as are support groups such as Famlies Anonymous or Alanon.</p><p></p><p>And of course the forum members will all help you through this. Posting really helps. </p><p></p><p>Welcome, and I hope u can find some comfort and useful information from all of us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="in a daze, post: 651257, member: 15832"] Hi there. We all get it.The frustration and the disappointment... There is one common theme that runs through the stories on this message board, and that is when we stopped helping them, when we made it clear that they were not welcome to live with us anymore, when we stopped giving them money, when we stopped trying to fix all their problems for them, when we started putting OURSELVES first, it was only then, that many all though not all of our wayward adult children started to slowly improve. A therapist to help you both deal with your daughter and take care of yourselves is helpful as are support groups such as Famlies Anonymous or Alanon. And of course the forum members will all help you through this. Posting really helps. Welcome, and I hope u can find some comfort and useful information from all of us. [/QUOTE]
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