Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Tough Love
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 762041" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>kimsco, I am so very sorry for your hard road with your daughter. Unfortunately I have experience around borderline/bipolar people. Not only my daughter but my in laws. I know how hard it is to get distance from your own daughter, I know about how deep the love for her goes and I know how deep down wicked she can be. It does not matter if what they are doing is illness or demon possessed the pain is the same.</p><p>I have a daughter who will be turning 40 soon. She was extremely awful from ages 21-35. I decided to completely cut her off, meaning not even answering the door when she came over. I think she thought I would always tolerate her abuse and found out I was done. Me not talking to her for 3 months let her know I was serious and it did make a difference, she still lies and is awful but the belligerence is 90% better. My road with her is still very difficult but I quit trying to make a relationship happen. Your daughter may not even be PG and just telling you that to give you more grief. When I made the decision to not talk or have anything to do with my bipolar/borderline in laws my life became so much better. The amount of grief, pain and agony these people can give can cause so much damage on mind, body and soul. I understand your love for her since she is your daughter. Read all you can about psychopathy and it will help you not hurt so much if you understand this horrific illness. God Bless and hold you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 762041, member: 22416"] kimsco, I am so very sorry for your hard road with your daughter. Unfortunately I have experience around borderline/bipolar people. Not only my daughter but my in laws. I know how hard it is to get distance from your own daughter, I know about how deep the love for her goes and I know how deep down wicked she can be. It does not matter if what they are doing is illness or demon possessed the pain is the same. I have a daughter who will be turning 40 soon. She was extremely awful from ages 21-35. I decided to completely cut her off, meaning not even answering the door when she came over. I think she thought I would always tolerate her abuse and found out I was done. Me not talking to her for 3 months let her know I was serious and it did make a difference, she still lies and is awful but the belligerence is 90% better. My road with her is still very difficult but I quit trying to make a relationship happen. Your daughter may not even be PG and just telling you that to give you more grief. When I made the decision to not talk or have anything to do with my bipolar/borderline in laws my life became so much better. The amount of grief, pain and agony these people can give can cause so much damage on mind, body and soul. I understand your love for her since she is your daughter. Read all you can about psychopathy and it will help you not hurt so much if you understand this horrific illness. God Bless and hold you. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Tough Love
Top