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<blockquote data-quote="WhymeMom?" data-source="post: 49152" data-attributes="member: 53"><p>If you let the court mandate the visitation it takes you out of the picture as the perceived "bad guys" coming in making trouble for child and bio mom. As much as you don't want the court involved it would make life easier for you with your difficult child. If enough road blocks are put in front of bio mom would she give up and go away? She may come out of this looking like the fun "grandmother" who gets to do stuff with her kid, but when the hard part of child rearing begins she hands her back....not a position I'd want her in....makes difficult child think she is Santa....</p><p></p><p>I'm glad I have never faced this with my kids....sending you strength in whatever choice you make.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhymeMom?, post: 49152, member: 53"] If you let the court mandate the visitation it takes you out of the picture as the perceived "bad guys" coming in making trouble for child and bio mom. As much as you don't want the court involved it would make life easier for you with your difficult child. If enough road blocks are put in front of bio mom would she give up and go away? She may come out of this looking like the fun "grandmother" who gets to do stuff with her kid, but when the hard part of child rearing begins she hands her back....not a position I'd want her in....makes difficult child think she is Santa.... I'm glad I have never faced this with my kids....sending you strength in whatever choice you make..... [/QUOTE]
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