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Troubles never end
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 685111" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Im sorry for your pain.</p><p></p><p>If you are reading this and going to al anon you are learning to accept that we can't control anyone but ourselves. You can not control your son by paying for his rehab or co signing for his apartment. You can't stop your ex from enabling son or bad mouthing you and, if this were me, I would stop talking to the man. You can't control girlfriend, your spouse, your neighber or your kissing cousin. I wish you could.</p><p></p><p>You can not force your son to stay clean, dump the girlfriend or whom your son aligns with, regardless of what great things you have done for your son.</p><p></p><p>But you know this.</p><p></p><p>It is good to vent and its too bad all these things are happening, but thry are out of your control.</p><p></p><p>I hope things change for the better soon. I hope you start to detach and take care of yourself. You are the only one you are able to control.</p><p></p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 685111, member: 1550"] Im sorry for your pain. If you are reading this and going to al anon you are learning to accept that we can't control anyone but ourselves. You can not control your son by paying for his rehab or co signing for his apartment. You can't stop your ex from enabling son or bad mouthing you and, if this were me, I would stop talking to the man. You can't control girlfriend, your spouse, your neighber or your kissing cousin. I wish you could. You can not force your son to stay clean, dump the girlfriend or whom your son aligns with, regardless of what great things you have done for your son. But you know this. It is good to vent and its too bad all these things are happening, but thry are out of your control. I hope things change for the better soon. I hope you start to detach and take care of yourself. You are the only one you are able to control. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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