Hi, Don't know if I'm on the right forum, but my name says it all. Son number one moved out 4 months ago. Two months ago we discovered he has had a our credit card for the last 6 months and racked up 7 grand on mcdonalds and parts for his car. (I Know we should have caught it earlier, but didn't think our boys would do something like this.) Son number two had his mothers debit card in the same time period and racked up 6600. Both drive around in cars paid for by us, as well as the insurance. When we found out of these thefts, they both finally got jobs. 1 at Grease Monkey, 2 at walmart. Son 2 turned eighteen in April and has since moved in with his 17 yo girlfriend and her parents. We have taken back the car and only allow him to use it for work. We got him to sign a notary'd promisary note. His first payment is due July 1. He is very defiant and has told us he deserves to take what he can from us, because he had a rough childhood. One of his beefs is we had a problem with him, his girlfriend and there buds partying in our basement after we went to bed. Go figure. Son 1 is not returning our calls and I have suggested we will cancel the insurance and retrieve the car somehow. Feel very bad, the wife is getting physically sick. Do not know what to do, but have definitey HAD IT.