Ex sent me an email, Difficult Child (he just turned 20 a week ago), has a new girlfriend who is 27 and has two children. I told Ex that she won't keep him long since he has no job. Argh... But Ex did say that he seems to have dropped the rough crowd he was running around with, he sold his truck because he couldn't afford it and is looking for something cheaper. Still no job, and barely looking. Some of this is good news.......keeping fingers crossed.