I am having to remind myself that it's one day at a time for progress and good stuff too! My son called again tonight. He is doing better and said they told him the sweats and shakes May last awhile but the medications are helping. He also made a commitment to do their residential program for one or two weeks and then go into their sober living program and look for a job there. He realized he really can't go back to where he was...although he will have to go back to get his stuff and clean up. I said if he wanted I would come back out and help him but only if he wanted me too....I kind of laughed and said I need to stop trying to come up with solutions and let you figure it out. I am amazed he is making these good rational decisions! And this is all him, no pressure from me! It's clear that at least right now he really wants to figure this out. So i am trying not to worry about the details and let him figure those out. I can help if he asks. This is unbelievable progress!