I got an email from difficult child's counselor in rehab... Apparently, he's requested that I send a msg (Happy Birthday) on facebook to one of his old friends. FYI: This particular girl is one that helped carry him home because he was too plastered to walk. I have SERIOUS reservations about doing that for him! Isnt he supposed to be detaching from his old friends?? I mean that's the whole point of going to a new school when he comes out! How is contacting her for him going to be doing him any good?? I haven't responded to the counselors email yet. I need to cool off a little first. I'm just steaming inside. My sons mindset has not changed one bit.