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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 649757" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>Hi Gpolo,</p><p></p><p>I totally relate to your quandary. husband and I went through this <strong>for years</strong>. It amazed me how difficult it was to get emotionally abusive, stealing, dishonest adult offspring out of your own home. Certainly nothing our police would do "unless he threatens you or hurts you". "This is his address. If we spent our time getting adult kids out of homes when parents want them out, that is all we'd be doing." The police seemed to always think it was just an argument. Sure, we were probably having an argument, but there was much more to it than that.</p><p></p><p><strong>One of the times</strong> that we changed the locks while he was away, Difficult Son showed up at his dad's workplace. Husband was at an in-service. Son walked in and wiped everything (papers, books, etc.) off the table, then turned around and walked out. It truly can be emotionally exhausting (and embarrassing, which was the least of our problems)...to deal with this type of personality,</p><p></p><p>Once the source of all this chaos is out of your home, your life will get so much sweeter. I hope you catch a break soon. Wish I had a working formula to share. Our difficult son finally decided to move 1500 mi away.</p><p></p><p> I feel for you. Stay close to the board. Something has to give way for you soon.</p><p></p><p></p><p>SS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 649757, member: 17635"] Hi Gpolo, I totally relate to your quandary. husband and I went through this [B]for years[/B]. It amazed me how difficult it was to get emotionally abusive, stealing, dishonest adult offspring out of your own home. Certainly nothing our police would do "unless he threatens you or hurts you". "This is his address. If we spent our time getting adult kids out of homes when parents want them out, that is all we'd be doing." The police seemed to always think it was just an argument. Sure, we were probably having an argument, but there was much more to it than that. [B]One of the times[/B] that we changed the locks while he was away, Difficult Son showed up at his dad's workplace. Husband was at an in-service. Son walked in and wiped everything (papers, books, etc.) off the table, then turned around and walked out. It truly can be emotionally exhausting (and embarrassing, which was the least of our problems)...to deal with this type of personality, Once the source of all this chaos is out of your home, your life will get so much sweeter. I hope you catch a break soon. Wish I had a working formula to share. Our difficult son finally decided to move 1500 mi away. I feel for you. Stay close to the board. Something has to give way for you soon. SS [/QUOTE]
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