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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 711734" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>I also heard the "I will hate you forever" not to mention all sorts of horrible curse words and being told I was the worst person in the world. </p><p></p><p>It is emotional blackmail and you need to stand tall. As in SWOT's case, once my husband and I learned to set firm boundaries and stopped refusing to let her treat us that way, it stopped. I literally blocked all access for a period of time. As my therapist said, you wouldn't let anyone else treat you that way, why do let her do it?</p><p></p><p>Now that my daughter has been sober for a year, she loves to spend time with me. We go out to eat, shop, and go to the movies. She tells me how much she loves me and is grateful that we have a good relationship again.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there. </p><p></p><p>~Kathy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 711734, member: 1967"] I also heard the "I will hate you forever" not to mention all sorts of horrible curse words and being told I was the worst person in the world. It is emotional blackmail and you need to stand tall. As in SWOT's case, once my husband and I learned to set firm boundaries and stopped refusing to let her treat us that way, it stopped. I literally blocked all access for a period of time. As my therapist said, you wouldn't let anyone else treat you that way, why do let her do it? Now that my daughter has been sober for a year, she loves to spend time with me. We go out to eat, shop, and go to the movies. She tells me how much she loves me and is grateful that we have a good relationship again. Hang in there. ~Kathy [/QUOTE]
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