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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 711766" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Marijuana very much can change some people, make them psychotic. I think it acts on their individual brain chemistry very badly. You have to draw a firm limit and withdraw all support until he gets clean and sober. Maybe offer to help the girlfriend IF she goes to her parents and gets far away from him. I know that may seem very cold to some people, but having a baby near him at this time, even in his mother's womb, is simply insane, unhealthy and unwise. Send 1/4 -1/2 of the support that you are sending to your son to the girlfriend if she goes home to her parents. Not all of it because you are probably sending more than you should anyway. This isn't your child and it isn't your job to support it. Son and girlfriend must feel the pinch to support themselves and the baby or they won't ever grow up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 711766, member: 1233"] Marijuana very much can change some people, make them psychotic. I think it acts on their individual brain chemistry very badly. You have to draw a firm limit and withdraw all support until he gets clean and sober. Maybe offer to help the girlfriend IF she goes to her parents and gets far away from him. I know that may seem very cold to some people, but having a baby near him at this time, even in his mother's womb, is simply insane, unhealthy and unwise. Send 1/4 -1/2 of the support that you are sending to your son to the girlfriend if she goes home to her parents. Not all of it because you are probably sending more than you should anyway. This isn't your child and it isn't your job to support it. Son and girlfriend must feel the pinch to support themselves and the baby or they won't ever grow up. [/QUOTE]
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