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Trying to stay strong by emotions are getting the best of me.
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 664055" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi SeaGenie,</p><p>I am so sorry for all that you have endured. I'm sorry that your son does not realize what a blessing you are.</p><p>I'm sorry you are having to deal with this.</p><p></p><p>Detaching is not easy but necessary for our survival.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Okay, you can be sad but you have nothing to feel guilty about. You did not do this to your son. Your son has made poor choices that have led to him being kicked out. You kicked him out for good reason.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I know it may not seem like he cares but he does. My son has not acknowledged me for my birthday, Mother's Day, Christmas or any other holiday in years, at least 6 or 7. I know that my son loves me, he just doesn't show it in the way I wish he would. I'm sure it's the same for your son. Our Difficult Child's are just not able to see past their own selfishness.</p><p></p><p></p><p>It's very unfortunate that he is making the choices to burn through this money but it's his choice.</p><p></p><p></p><p>If anything else is delivered for him at your address, you might want to consider marking it "return to sender - no longer resides at this address"</p><p></p><p></p><p>Is there any way you can get some type of injunction to stop him from getting this money?</p><p></p><p>You may want to visit your Dr. and have him/her write a prescription for a sleep aid.</p><p></p><p>Most of all do not blame yourself. Your son's choices are his alone. You have done all you can for him, you raised him with love, morals and values.</p><p></p><p>It's time to concentrate on yourself. Do not define your life by your son.</p><p></p><p>All that you have been through shows that you are a survivor, you will survive this too.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 664055, member: 18516"] Hi SeaGenie, I am so sorry for all that you have endured. I'm sorry that your son does not realize what a blessing you are. I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. Detaching is not easy but necessary for our survival. Okay, you can be sad but you have nothing to feel guilty about. You did not do this to your son. Your son has made poor choices that have led to him being kicked out. You kicked him out for good reason. I know it may not seem like he cares but he does. My son has not acknowledged me for my birthday, Mother's Day, Christmas or any other holiday in years, at least 6 or 7. I know that my son loves me, he just doesn't show it in the way I wish he would. I'm sure it's the same for your son. Our Difficult Child's are just not able to see past their own selfishness. It's very unfortunate that he is making the choices to burn through this money but it's his choice. If anything else is delivered for him at your address, you might want to consider marking it "return to sender - no longer resides at this address" Is there any way you can get some type of injunction to stop him from getting this money? You may want to visit your Dr. and have him/her write a prescription for a sleep aid. Most of all do not blame yourself. Your son's choices are his alone. You have done all you can for him, you raised him with love, morals and values. It's time to concentrate on yourself. Do not define your life by your son. All that you have been through shows that you are a survivor, you will survive this too. :group-hug::group-hug::group-hug: [/QUOTE]
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