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<blockquote data-quote="Hopeful97" data-source="post: 677409" data-attributes="member: 19678"><p>Thanks to all of you. It sure doesn't feel like I will ever accept this just learn to live with it - maybe that is in a way acceptance. Thanks for all of your words of wisdom and your support through all of this, trying to keep my head up but it is seems to be a very sad time right now - don't know why but probably because I am at this stage - in the Serenity prayer accepting (learning to live with), it is another sad stage in this journey. Wow, I thought the hurt would lessen, but I am learning that the hurt goes up and down sometimes it is worse than others. That seems weird to say but it is these new emotions.</p><p></p><p> Leafy, <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/youreright.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":youreright:" title="youreright :youreright:" data-shortname=":youreright:" /> the ride is not over yet and maybe never will be but I am really trying to dig in really concentrate on building up my strength.</p><p></p><p> Tanya M., <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/youreright.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":youreright:" title="youreright :youreright:" data-shortname=":youreright:" />this is a really strange feeling/emotion. I sense that detaching with love is sort of an ongoing process but as you get stronger as you continue to practice detaching with love and to stop enabling it gets less intense (hopefully).</p><p></p><p> Leafy, Letting go and letting God is a long, hard process - but I persist because I know that God is with me at all times. It sucks that the stages we go through and from what I have been reading the stages continue to cycle just get less and less or longer in between or maybe just slow down.</p><p></p><p> TheWalrus, Thank you. I am working toward this. It is a long process and I can see that things will most likely get worse for my son, trying to strengthen myself with things I have learned so that I can respond/react appropriately. I know that this is his situation and I cannot change things trying to now accept that which is slowly happening.</p><p></p><p>Again Thank all of you for caring, sharing, listening, offering advice and opinions. In the few months that I have been posting this you have helped me tremendously, I can't imagine where I would be if God had not led me to this site.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /></p><p>HUGS,</p><p></p><p>Hopeful</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopeful97, post: 677409, member: 19678"] Thanks to all of you. It sure doesn't feel like I will ever accept this just learn to live with it - maybe that is in a way acceptance. Thanks for all of your words of wisdom and your support through all of this, trying to keep my head up but it is seems to be a very sad time right now - don't know why but probably because I am at this stage - in the Serenity prayer accepting (learning to live with), it is another sad stage in this journey. Wow, I thought the hurt would lessen, but I am learning that the hurt goes up and down sometimes it is worse than others. That seems weird to say but it is these new emotions. Leafy, :youreright: the ride is not over yet and maybe never will be but I am really trying to dig in really concentrate on building up my strength. Tanya M., :youreright:this is a really strange feeling/emotion. I sense that detaching with love is sort of an ongoing process but as you get stronger as you continue to practice detaching with love and to stop enabling it gets less intense (hopefully). Leafy, Letting go and letting God is a long, hard process - but I persist because I know that God is with me at all times. It sucks that the stages we go through and from what I have been reading the stages continue to cycle just get less and less or longer in between or maybe just slow down. TheWalrus, Thank you. I am working toward this. It is a long process and I can see that things will most likely get worse for my son, trying to strengthen myself with things I have learned so that I can respond/react appropriately. I know that this is his situation and I cannot change things trying to now accept that which is slowly happening. Again Thank all of you for caring, sharing, listening, offering advice and opinions. In the few months that I have been posting this you have helped me tremendously, I can't imagine where I would be if God had not led me to this site. :group-hug: HUGS, Hopeful [/QUOTE]
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