First of all, I want to thank everyone on this forum. Not only has it been a hugh help getting advice on my own situation, it is very helpful to read everyone’s stories and to realize I am not alone. With the help of this forum I was able to learn if I don’t allow my adult child to abuse me she actually stops and starts respecting me. Well, I was doing great until she started with me yesterday saying, she needs to move away from her boyfriend, she is about to have a baby due feb.14th. I once again sent her money (money I had to borrow) to go live with a friend who has offered her a home for her and her soon to be born child. I am currently in a situation where I have nowhere for her to live because I am in the process of making changes for myself and I don’t have a home. Although, throughout the last couple of years I have repeatedly sent money for her to come home. Resulting in days of stress for me and her not actually coming. She called me at work this morning(Not caring at all that I was working) starting in again about there stuff. I told her I was working and I don’t want to be involved with their fights, and to call me when she goes into labor. Her response was, “How about I don’t call you, and you will not know” I just told her that was fine that she just needs to focus on raising her baby. Thanks for listening guys! I really appreciate it!