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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 725555" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Good for you. Guard your heart mindfully and dont let Daughter use the baby as blackmail or you will have no peace. None. Only angst because grandparents have no rights to their grandchildren. You see them if the parents allow it. And they can cut you off at any time. And you will find you have no recourse.</p><p></p><p> You don't owe her a house. She needs to find a place to live on her own. This can not be your battle. You don't have enough money to send it to her for any reason. Not even the baby. If she can't take care of the baby, alert CPS (do not hesitate) or go for custody yourself if Daughter is proven unfit. The baby is better off in someone else's care; somebody stable and able to be a real caregiver. As for you, the baby is a mean and often vile way for them to use us in the worse way possible, to control us, then threaten to withdraw the child when you refuse to kiss their feet. I dare suggest it may be best not to get too attached to your grandchild. Unless you get custody, the grandchild will be pulled from you each time you say no to Daughter. You will be her slave. How many other babies will be born to her if you reward her for having one by doing her bidding so that she won't yank child from your arms?</p><p></p><p>Don't let Daughter bankrupt you. She will not be there for you in your hour of need. So you have to protect yourself. From her. From your daughter. Is there a reason she can't work and take care of herself? Why does she have to stay with your friend? You must know she won't last long there.</p><p></p><p>Love and hugs. Detach, detach, detach. Do not let her control you with baby. Again, there is always CPS.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 725555, member: 1550"] Good for you. Guard your heart mindfully and dont let Daughter use the baby as blackmail or you will have no peace. None. Only angst because grandparents have no rights to their grandchildren. You see them if the parents allow it. And they can cut you off at any time. And you will find you have no recourse. You don't owe her a house. She needs to find a place to live on her own. This can not be your battle. You don't have enough money to send it to her for any reason. Not even the baby. If she can't take care of the baby, alert CPS (do not hesitate) or go for custody yourself if Daughter is proven unfit. The baby is better off in someone else's care; somebody stable and able to be a real caregiver. As for you, the baby is a mean and often vile way for them to use us in the worse way possible, to control us, then threaten to withdraw the child when you refuse to kiss their feet. I dare suggest it may be best not to get too attached to your grandchild. Unless you get custody, the grandchild will be pulled from you each time you say no to Daughter. You will be her slave. How many other babies will be born to her if you reward her for having one by doing her bidding so that she won't yank child from your arms? Don't let Daughter bankrupt you. She will not be there for you in your hour of need. So you have to protect yourself. From her. From your daughter. Is there a reason she can't work and take care of herself? Why does she have to stay with your friend? You must know she won't last long there. Love and hugs. Detach, detach, detach. Do not let her control you with baby. Again, there is always CPS. [/QUOTE]
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