difficult child is not hard enough. Still waiting from transport but now husband is acting like a JERK. An old friend of mine from high found me on face book yesterday and wanted to get together today for lunch for he also had a job interview and said he would call after that so we could decide what and where. Well that didn't end up happening since his interview ended up taking long because they gave him a physical and whatever and last night when I gave him my phone number he didn't save it. Well I have face book send me new messages and when he said he did not save my number I thought oh ok since I was beginning to think that he just really didn't want to get together. He told me at our senior mass to stop crying since it's not like this is the last time we will ever see each other and it was. He joined the service after HS and I went off to college. I had tried to find him but no luck so I was happy to hear from him. So he chatted for a while last night on face book then today he posted his new phone number and told me he didn't save mine so I posted it and he called me within 5 minutes. We were close in school and he dated several of my good friends. Tonight when husband came in I was on the phone with him then he hung up cause his wife was calling -he called back but I hung up to talk to my mom-back and forth like that. husband had been outside watering and he had asked him what he wanted for dinner out of the meat I had taken out of the freezer. Got my potatoes out and veggie and had the whole plan to make dinner. So I was sitting at the computer typing a letter and talking to my friend when husband starts sighing and says outloud that he guesses he will just have to go to bed early. I told my friend I had to go so I could make dinner for my husband and he was understanding and told us to have a good night. Not 2 seconds after I hung up husband starts a fight saying that I was spinning around in the computer chair and how fair is that after I am the one that is always correcting difficult child NOT to do it. I turned around and looked at him and said don't go there. After all that is going on right now with difficult child with us just waiting --I said that he is one to talk considering how many things that difficult child has asked him to teach him and he blows him off in order to go show step son the idea difficult child just gave him. I told him I was not going to argue and turned around to the computer. He made several hateful comments then walked off --he came back in an attempt to fix things but made it worse. He now said that he is willing to get out of my life and that in the morning "if I have permission to be on the computer I will post my belongings on ebay and get out of my life" I refused to argue and he kept pushing then went off to bed I gave up all but one friend when we got together and he didn't give up anybody including his ex-wife. He is jealous but I with all I have on my plate I can't deal with this petty **** now I feel like I might have to make this long trip with difficult child alone, but am i not already alone???