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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 59423" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>OK so for those of you keeping up with my lame dramatic life... my Father has continued to write. I honestly did not expect him to, he never has kept contact in the past. </p><p>So he has been keeping me informed on my Aunt who is dying. Then he let's me know that his heart is not doing well... I don't know what this means? He said it is lifestyle, duh, lifetime of drugs and alcohol. He also lets me know his wife is having some issues with her blood??? I don't know what that means either. </p><p>So he say's they are rewriting their will... they want to keep it fair. (I had been out up until this point!!!) So he would like mine and the girls info... They will split it 5 ways, I guess his wife has a 3 kids also???</p><p>He then says in a round about way "sorry" He says he knows he can change nothing of the past but would like to get to know the girls and hear how we are doing...</p><p>I think this has been brought on due to his sister's illness and his and his wives bad health?</p><p>So husband thinks I should keep it honest, straightforward, not emotional, and be the big person. husband said I should be proud and feel like bragging about how wonderful and beautiful my girls are,(he made me cry). So I wrote to my Dad and told him honestly what is going on with my kids, that it is genetics etc. That I have a Mood Disorder etc. and that I hope his health is fine. I did not give him my info. </p><p>husband thinks if he asks again to give him the girls info, if he feels like leaving the gilrs money so be it.</p><p></p><p>He wrote back and said he was sorry for what was happening, and he was sorry he didn't help me when I was younger, he also didn't aknowledge any of the facts that he contributed to my issues... but whatever. </p><p>In his roundabout way he said sorry without addmitting anything, and kept himself looking good. </p><p>I kept it brief and not much emotion. He did write back and ask again for our info... I don't know if I should give it to him? </p><p>It is just a po box. </p><p></p><p>Am I being completely stupid writing to him??? If he wanted to meet the girls that would take a lot of thought...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 59423, member: 3155"] OK so for those of you keeping up with my lame dramatic life... my Father has continued to write. I honestly did not expect him to, he never has kept contact in the past. So he has been keeping me informed on my Aunt who is dying. Then he let's me know that his heart is not doing well... I don't know what this means? He said it is lifestyle, duh, lifetime of drugs and alcohol. He also lets me know his wife is having some issues with her blood??? I don't know what that means either. So he say's they are rewriting their will... they want to keep it fair. (I had been out up until this point!!!) So he would like mine and the girls info... They will split it 5 ways, I guess his wife has a 3 kids also??? He then says in a round about way "sorry" He says he knows he can change nothing of the past but would like to get to know the girls and hear how we are doing... I think this has been brought on due to his sister's illness and his and his wives bad health? So husband thinks I should keep it honest, straightforward, not emotional, and be the big person. husband said I should be proud and feel like bragging about how wonderful and beautiful my girls are,(he made me cry). So I wrote to my Dad and told him honestly what is going on with my kids, that it is genetics etc. That I have a Mood Disorder etc. and that I hope his health is fine. I did not give him my info. husband thinks if he asks again to give him the girls info, if he feels like leaving the gilrs money so be it. He wrote back and said he was sorry for what was happening, and he was sorry he didn't help me when I was younger, he also didn't aknowledge any of the facts that he contributed to my issues... but whatever. In his roundabout way he said sorry without addmitting anything, and kept himself looking good. I kept it brief and not much emotion. He did write back and ask again for our info... I don't know if I should give it to him? It is just a po box. Am I being completely stupid writing to him??? If he wanted to meet the girls that would take a lot of thought... [/QUOTE]
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