Ugh... saw something on difficult children facebook page that makes me strongly think he smoking pot again.... or spice.... I believe he is getting drug tested by probation so that is just really stupid... of course spice doesnt show up I don't think. I think about saying something to him, or to his girlfriend or to his probation officer.... and then I think NO it is time to stay out of it and let things fall where they may. Ugh... makes me anxious though and I need to not get caught up in my worries and wish that he would just truly get and stay sober. Darn and our meeting yesterday was so good.... of course I haven't heard from him since.