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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 653302" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Thanks...I just hope at this point I can manage to do so myself. I'm tired of being upset with him. I really am. I said to Jabber the other day, I would give anything to have a son who could call and come by...eat my food, use my washer and dryer...and I wouldn't care because otherwise he'd be paying his own bills, living his own life. </p><p></p><p>If he did that, got a job, paid his bills, bathed and what have you...If he had a life I could ask about, "How's work?" "Seeing anyone?" "What are you doing tonight?" "What did you do this weekend?" the usual kind of boring small talk you can have with people...I would be so happy. </p><p></p><p>But he doesn't work, last I heard he is apparently seeing a married woman (I told him, I just didn't even want to know. I told Jabber I feel like he's just a murder away from breaking every commandment. It's like he's <em>trying </em>to prove he has abandoned every moral we ever tried to instill.) Of course, I don't dare ask what his plans are for the weekend or what he's been doing. </p><p></p><p>So...we'll pick him up. Go to the pub. Order dinner. Sit in awkward silence I guess. He'll feel like we're judging and unreasonable. I'll feel sad and hurt. </p><p></p><p>Yeah. Going to be fun.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 653302, member: 17309"] Thanks...I just hope at this point I can manage to do so myself. I'm tired of being upset with him. I really am. I said to Jabber the other day, I would give anything to have a son who could call and come by...eat my food, use my washer and dryer...and I wouldn't care because otherwise he'd be paying his own bills, living his own life. If he did that, got a job, paid his bills, bathed and what have you...If he had a life I could ask about, "How's work?" "Seeing anyone?" "What are you doing tonight?" "What did you do this weekend?" the usual kind of boring small talk you can have with people...I would be so happy. But he doesn't work, last I heard he is apparently seeing a married woman (I told him, I just didn't even want to know. I told Jabber I feel like he's just a murder away from breaking every commandment. It's like he's [I]trying [/I]to prove he has abandoned every moral we ever tried to instill.) Of course, I don't dare ask what his plans are for the weekend or what he's been doing. So...we'll pick him up. Go to the pub. Order dinner. Sit in awkward silence I guess. He'll feel like we're judging and unreasonable. I'll feel sad and hurt. Yeah. Going to be fun. [/QUOTE]
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