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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 721473" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Good to see you BG. I'm so glad you've joined us again. Your voice is so valuable.</p><p></p><p>I can't imagine the sorrow and pain you've felt these last months......you've lived the nightmare we all face here. Your words and sentiments are vitally important for us to hear.....thanks for sharing your journey.</p><p></p><p>I am so very sorry for your loss. I've thought about you often over the months, always sending you prayers and warm wishes. I think your pondering is all in the realm of reason and sounds to me as if you are attempting to reconcile the irreconcilable..... what we do a lot of around here.....</p><p></p><p>I recall reading many years ago that we come here to complete a mission and when that mission is complete, we leave. You don't know how many lives your son touched, or what his destiny was, perhaps he completed his destiny, his mission. He loved you BG, that came across in your posts. He would want you to have peace of mind. There's no figuring any of it out. There are not always reasons or justifications, we don't always get to understand......</p><p></p><p>I'm sure this has been a nightmare for you of epic proportions. And, it likely doesn't feel this way, but you sound clear and on your way thru this sorrow. It is a hard place to be but you are evolving.</p><p></p><p>You really did do everything possible to save your son. There is no more you could have done, or said. You had no control over his choices. Let the guilt go.</p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Let the guilt go.</em></p><p></p><p><em>There is nothing else you could have done to save him. </em></p><p><em>He was the master of his ship. </em></p><p><em>He made his choices. </em></p><p><em>You don't have to suffer anymore. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p>Sending you heartfelt prayers for peace of mind, serenity and comfort. God bless.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 721473, member: 13542"] Good to see you BG. I'm so glad you've joined us again. Your voice is so valuable. I can't imagine the sorrow and pain you've felt these last months......you've lived the nightmare we all face here. Your words and sentiments are vitally important for us to hear.....thanks for sharing your journey. I am so very sorry for your loss. I've thought about you often over the months, always sending you prayers and warm wishes. I think your pondering is all in the realm of reason and sounds to me as if you are attempting to reconcile the irreconcilable..... what we do a lot of around here..... I recall reading many years ago that we come here to complete a mission and when that mission is complete, we leave. You don't know how many lives your son touched, or what his destiny was, perhaps he completed his destiny, his mission. He loved you BG, that came across in your posts. He would want you to have peace of mind. There's no figuring any of it out. There are not always reasons or justifications, we don't always get to understand...... I'm sure this has been a nightmare for you of epic proportions. And, it likely doesn't feel this way, but you sound clear and on your way thru this sorrow. It is a hard place to be but you are evolving. You really did do everything possible to save your son. There is no more you could have done, or said. You had no control over his choices. Let the guilt go. [I] Let the guilt go.[/I] [I]There is nothing else you could have done to save him. He was the master of his ship. He made his choices. You don't have to suffer anymore. [/I] Sending you heartfelt prayers for peace of mind, serenity and comfort. God bless. [/QUOTE]
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