Katie and family are now in the dayton shelter. As it stands at the moment, they will be coming here xmas eve and (if the shelter won't boot them out of their spot) spending the night so the grands can have all the Santa deal. Now I have no doubt in my mind at all that their parents won't be able to buy them presents. I was going to call Toys for Tots this week.......then the dayton shelter said they would take them. While I'm sure they could get Toys for Tots there.........well, they'd be here on xmas..... So I'm not sure how that would work. Now I don't know whether to let it drop as the shelter there would probably have katie contact them.....or what. Awful. But I've always donated to Toys for Tots. I've not used it before so I'm not sure how it works. I know it's to help kids like the grands have an xmas........but I don't know if they bring it before xmas and just give it to them, or if they give it to the parents to be santa gifts or what. I got lucky as far as stocking stuffers. Our walmart had lots of nice things for a dollar and under like pencils, card games erasers ect that were really cute. I don't do much candy in stockings as I'm used to having difficult children and they're usually wired to the hilt without the sugar high on top of it. lol So........anyone have any ideas?