Do you all remember a while back when I wanted the job at the candle factory where Nichole worked? It pays well, the hours are good, and it is full time work. (rare) And the person who called said I had to have 6 months experience. I know that requirement is bogus as hades..........this is a small area and I know who has worked there and under what circumstances they were hired. Well..........I belong to the area fb freebie site, sort of like freecycle but on fb. An ad they are hiring again is posted. Now this is where it gets sticky. Bff was like a little sister to me, we were exceptionally close until the drug use forced me to back off. (although I was still always there for her when she really needed me) For those who don't know, bff died of an overdose (perhaps assisted) some 3 yrs ago. The woman who posted the ad is bff's sister in law. She has worked for the temp co who hires for the candle factory for years and is who hired Nichole. She is NOT the person who called me for my phone interview when I last applied because I'd have recognized her voice. Know what I mean?? I will admit right now that I am utterly desperate. I couldn't get more desperate if I tried. We're pricing the silver and china to sell it so next month's house payment and bills might be paid. Yes, it IS that bad. So....... I am attempting to pm bff's sister in law via facebook. (we're not friends, I am not friends with any of her family on facebook done on purpose) I thought I'd remind her who I am, let her know the circumstances, and see if she will hire me herself and give me a try at the very least. She can contact her mother in law and sister in law (if they're talking......drama is why they are not my fb friends) and I know they will not only vouch for me but rave about me. I'm the only decent friend bff ever had. They know for a fact that I am no partier and I don't drink or do drugs and that I'm responsible. They ALL know that I was a stay at home mom for a fact.......not just made up to hide work history I don't want them to know about. I'm using pm because even if I walked into the office monday morning there is no guarantee I'd get to talk to the sister in law instead of someone else. Good idea? Bad idea? I would grovel at the woman's feet if it would get me hired. I am NOT joking.