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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 680385" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>You have a bit of time to think about this and sit with your feelings.</p><p>That is some good advice I received here.</p><p>Sit with the feelings.</p><p>Not the see-sawing up and down emotional swirly whirly feelings.</p><p>Certainly, get those OUT.</p><p>Rely on thoughts and feelings that come from a center of balance.</p><p>In order to do that, it takes time and effort to work on ourselves.</p><p>Focus on you.</p><p>That is what we are learning here.</p><p>To focus on ourselves.</p><p>Build ourselves up to a point where we can make choices based on steady state.</p><p>There is a certain amount of desperation that flows over and around and through us when our kids go off the rails.</p><p>So many different emotions.</p><p></p><p>Other words of wisdom I received here is to slow.....way.....down.</p><p>Your sons court date is in a couple of weeks.</p><p>Take the time you need to think it through and keep posting.</p><p>I think the responses you will receive here coming from caring, kind and concerned folks will help you decide what your course will be.</p><p>Breathe PonyGirl, you got this.</p><p>What helps me tremendously with my twos situation, is that I gave them over to God. If you have that belief in a Higher Power, take your concerns there, with faith that the answers will come.</p><p></p><p>You will know, because you will be at peace with your decision.</p><p></p><p>Take care and be very kind to yourself. You are not alone.</p><p></p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 680385, member: 19522"] You have a bit of time to think about this and sit with your feelings. That is some good advice I received here. Sit with the feelings. Not the see-sawing up and down emotional swirly whirly feelings. Certainly, get those OUT. Rely on thoughts and feelings that come from a center of balance. In order to do that, it takes time and effort to work on ourselves. Focus on you. That is what we are learning here. To focus on ourselves. Build ourselves up to a point where we can make choices based on steady state. There is a certain amount of desperation that flows over and around and through us when our kids go off the rails. So many different emotions. Other words of wisdom I received here is to slow.....way.....down. Your sons court date is in a couple of weeks. Take the time you need to think it through and keep posting. I think the responses you will receive here coming from caring, kind and concerned folks will help you decide what your course will be. Breathe PonyGirl, you got this. What helps me tremendously with my twos situation, is that I gave them over to God. If you have that belief in a Higher Power, take your concerns there, with faith that the answers will come. You will know, because you will be at peace with your decision. Take care and be very kind to yourself. You are not alone. (((HUGS))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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