So my son has moved from his restrictive recovery home mainly because said recovery home requires their residents to get a job in a certain amount of time or find another placement. He had another three weeks but since this present place he is at is on north side with lots more jobs and close to favorite uncle, sister and cousin and had one bed open we moved him last Monday. This sober living home is more liberal as to curfew, cellphone/internet and money. Had him open account with 100.00 from other bank account and 100.00 gift from grandparents. Bank account drained in one week. difficult child asking for more money. He has ramen noodles and peanut butter emergency food (buy own cook own food) Claims money taken out of wallet at public library. Claims no utensils to cook ramen noodles in. Called house manager. He will talk to difficult child. difficult child called and is perturbed that they are having him do a drop. My poor husband had flat tire on way home from train station. Worried about elderly grandparents as Grandpa in skilled nursing facility, 93 years old s/p sepsis, alert but heavy one assist transfer; that's in physical therapy as they use a lift to get him in/out of bed. One son and three grandchildren have taken most of the money they would have used for the recommended nursing home or 24 hour care. Grandpa and Grandma are co dependent but they don't know it!