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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 750024" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This is amazing! Congratulations. Do you have any sense of why now? Do you think it has anything to do with the move?</p><p>That's good. That's enough money for them to live. And they will work it out between them. Lil. I think now the work is in you. To not take this on. At all. He is a married man now. An adult. With a family. This is now in their lap.</p><p></p><p>Wasn't she in college when they met? Didn't he live in her dorm room? Did she graduate? </p><p></p><p>This is wonderful news. She sounds like a great person who is good for your son. He seems to step up around her. </p><p></p><p>M said this about my son the other day, when I was complaining: <em>It's his personality.</em> I felt bad. But I think it is the same with your son. These things don't change so quickly or easily. It takes thousand of approximations, while they try to better themselves. The have the intention, to some extent, but maybe not the skills. The skills they have to hone.</p><p></p><p>I think your son is in a great place. In lots of ways this move is realistic. It sounds like they might have a better shot, with an easier time of it, in your community. </p><p></p><p>The marijuana is a problem. Yes. But how big a one? I live where marijuana is legal. But 50 years ago, when I was young, marijuana was NOT legal. Many, many (most) young people in my peer group used it, with no big deal. There must be millions of people in your state who find a way to use, without undue risk.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 750024, member: 18958"] This is amazing! Congratulations. Do you have any sense of why now? Do you think it has anything to do with the move? That's good. That's enough money for them to live. And they will work it out between them. Lil. I think now the work is in you. To not take this on. At all. He is a married man now. An adult. With a family. This is now in their lap. Wasn't she in college when they met? Didn't he live in her dorm room? Did she graduate? This is wonderful news. She sounds like a great person who is good for your son. He seems to step up around her. M said this about my son the other day, when I was complaining: [I]It's his personality.[/I] I felt bad. But I think it is the same with your son. These things don't change so quickly or easily. It takes thousand of approximations, while they try to better themselves. The have the intention, to some extent, but maybe not the skills. The skills they have to hone. I think your son is in a great place. In lots of ways this move is realistic. It sounds like they might have a better shot, with an easier time of it, in your community. The marijuana is a problem. Yes. But how big a one? I live where marijuana is legal. But 50 years ago, when I was young, marijuana was NOT legal. Many, many (most) young people in my peer group used it, with no big deal. There must be millions of people in your state who find a way to use, without undue risk. [/QUOTE]
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