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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 74741" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>Well, here's a kicker. My ex-sister in law called me last night (she was supposed to be my friend) and while we were talking she asked me if I thought the reason difficult child called me a wh**e was because of me leaving her brother in law (exh) all those years ago to be with my H. Well, I was shocked. I did NOT leave exh to be with H. My marriage to exh was over emotionally, physically and intellectually long before H came into the picture and it was a direct result of exh's cocaine and pot use that ended (and also things like not paying rent and me having to go to the church for food even though he made $800/week back in 1991). Unfortunately, I was so shocked by what she said that I couldn't find words, which is unlike me, but I mean really - I was blown away. </p><p></p><p>Now it's bugging me that this is her translation of my separation and divorce from her brother in law and since difficult child will be living down there...I am wondering if this will only cement for difficult child her belief that H is somehow to blame for mine and her father's divorce. Do I call the sister in law? Or do I just let things ride out? Incidentally, difficult child will be staying with her for the first four days she is there while H is in VA with easy child, so there is a pretty good chance that ex-sister in law will play armchair psychologist with difficult child, along with her adult daughter, who is an actual psychologist RN...ugh. WWYD?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 74741, member: 2211"] Well, here's a kicker. My ex-sister in law called me last night (she was supposed to be my friend) and while we were talking she asked me if I thought the reason difficult child called me a wh**e was because of me leaving her brother in law (exh) all those years ago to be with my H. Well, I was shocked. I did NOT leave exh to be with H. My marriage to exh was over emotionally, physically and intellectually long before H came into the picture and it was a direct result of exh's cocaine and pot use that ended (and also things like not paying rent and me having to go to the church for food even though he made $800/week back in 1991). Unfortunately, I was so shocked by what she said that I couldn't find words, which is unlike me, but I mean really - I was blown away. Now it's bugging me that this is her translation of my separation and divorce from her brother in law and since difficult child will be living down there...I am wondering if this will only cement for difficult child her belief that H is somehow to blame for mine and her father's divorce. Do I call the sister in law? Or do I just let things ride out? Incidentally, difficult child will be staying with her for the first four days she is there while H is in VA with easy child, so there is a pretty good chance that ex-sister in law will play armchair psychologist with difficult child, along with her adult daughter, who is an actual psychologist RN...ugh. WWYD? [/QUOTE]
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