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UPDATE:Oh for the love of God, my stomach was not made for having children
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 663829" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>There are times when what we must do is not tear into ourselves because we don't know, because we can't fix it or take away the pain. The end result <em>is</em> unknowable. What is known is: Knowing someone we love believes in us, has our back and is on our side makes all the difference.</p><p></p><p>You listen.</p><p></p><p>You love him and wish him well and are on Bart's side.</p><p></p><p>You have been the best mother there could be and have done every smallest thing the best mother does. </p><p></p><p>Rest in that, Serenity.</p><p></p><p>What more there is will come. </p><p></p><p>I think you have done very well.</p><p></p><p>If there were anything more you could do, you would. And Bart knows that with his whole heart.</p><p></p><p>We have been discussing betrayal of self on another thread. This is a time for you to rest in what you know. You loved and you listened and you are there for him.</p><p></p><p>You did not betray him. Now, you have an opportunity to learn how to hold faith with yourself.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>True.</p><p></p><p>We called D H mom about something my mom did to us, once. Speaking with her did not change the event.</p><p></p><p>Knowing she loved us ~ D H without question and me, by extension ~ that changed everything about how we saw ourselves going through it.</p><p></p><p>That is what you do, for Bart.</p><p></p><p>I really liked Lil's response.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 663829, member: 17461"] There are times when what we must do is not tear into ourselves because we don't know, because we can't fix it or take away the pain. The end result [I]is[/I] unknowable. What is known is: Knowing someone we love believes in us, has our back and is on our side makes all the difference. You listen. You love him and wish him well and are on Bart's side. You have been the best mother there could be and have done every smallest thing the best mother does. Rest in that, Serenity. What more there is will come. I think you have done very well. If there were anything more you could do, you would. And Bart knows that with his whole heart. We have been discussing betrayal of self on another thread. This is a time for you to rest in what you know. You loved and you listened and you are there for him. You did not betray him. Now, you have an opportunity to learn how to hold faith with yourself. True. We called D H mom about something my mom did to us, once. Speaking with her did not change the event. Knowing she loved us ~ D H without question and me, by extension ~ that changed everything about how we saw ourselves going through it. That is what you do, for Bart. I really liked Lil's response. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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