Well, I haven't been quiet because all my problems are solved - no sirree! I had all three cherubs last week, so I was run off my feet, hands, knees etc. It was fun though. Unfortunately, Dad is back! And DOCS are still dragging their feet about taking an Order out. However, putting that aside. Cherub went to the urologist appointment last week, he did an xray, and she is impacted again. He suggested (along with paediatrician) that she should come into hospital. bio mum says, not for three weeks, we're going away! Can you believe it? Then she returns her to me! Poor cherub has sore tummy. Pale, lethargic (poisoned no doubt). Movicol is 2 sachets a day (full strength). Today she did nothing! She thought she was being a good girl because her panties were clean each time I sent her to the bathroom. I rewarded her with a sticker, praised her, etc. All the time thinking, this is WRONG! I put an urgent call into the paediatrician to tell her what's happening as she wasn't there last week. Blue Nurse came to assess her, since she's moved into my care. I told her, and she suggested starting a clean out right away with 6 x sachets for the first three days. So I gave her four more today, - no result. Agreed with me, that if paediatrician suggests going to hospital, take her, and tell bio mum after she's admitted as then if she kicks up a fuss, we can call CPS and it will be a protection matter if she tries to discharge her. Otherwise, cleaning her out, before the holiday, might help but likely mom won't be medicating her while she's away, so she'll come back impacted again. Isn't that cruel? The whole thing is cruel. The urologist told bio mum it could be at least another 5 years before cherub is better.... it seems it's the bowel problem causing the urinary tract problem - enuresis. And now the father is allowed supervised contact with cherub. How do we know for sure he isn't going on the same holiday for two weeks? It's all so complicated.