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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 758102" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>My husband volunteers at the local court. He has asked, and usually they would have them call someone to take the child. Our concern (and probably DGDs) is that IF there was concern for the child's welfare, then the child could be taken in to protective custody.</p><p></p><p>He has lost custody of two children, or at least two moms have lost custody, and he never showed up to try and follow thru to get custody. One is in foster care right now, and a DNA test proved he was the father. Our state has not legalized weed...so he probably wouldn't pass a drug test. Which could lead to social workers possibly removing my DGDs child from their home. There is a even a third child, bring raised by his wife's first husband, as that husband got custody of both children, and the baby was conceived and born during that marriage. Then they split up and bio mom married boyfriend, and they had a baby born prematurely and tested positive for meth. The bio moms mom has that child. Then a girlfriend tad a baby about the same time as wife...and that child was removed from her because of drug use.</p><p></p><p>So...4 young children. Such a f-ing fiasco. He is still married...but neither can afford a divorce. Which is good, as he cant pressure DGD to marry him. </p><p></p><p>He spent two months in jail last summer... Two of the charges are for beating up his then wife, who had hospital stays. But he has not had further legal charges since then. And he has never been charged with child abuse. But I don't trust him to be "fully" there for the baby. Maybe distracted by TV, video games, sleeping.</p><p></p><p>Ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 758102, member: 12511"] My husband volunteers at the local court. He has asked, and usually they would have them call someone to take the child. Our concern (and probably DGDs) is that IF there was concern for the child's welfare, then the child could be taken in to protective custody. He has lost custody of two children, or at least two moms have lost custody, and he never showed up to try and follow thru to get custody. One is in foster care right now, and a DNA test proved he was the father. Our state has not legalized weed...so he probably wouldn't pass a drug test. Which could lead to social workers possibly removing my DGDs child from their home. There is a even a third child, bring raised by his wife's first husband, as that husband got custody of both children, and the baby was conceived and born during that marriage. Then they split up and bio mom married boyfriend, and they had a baby born prematurely and tested positive for meth. The bio moms mom has that child. Then a girlfriend tad a baby about the same time as wife...and that child was removed from her because of drug use. So...4 young children. Such a f-ing fiasco. He is still married...but neither can afford a divorce. Which is good, as he cant pressure DGD to marry him. He spent two months in jail last summer... Two of the charges are for beating up his then wife, who had hospital stays. But he has not had further legal charges since then. And he has never been charged with child abuse. But I don't trust him to be "fully" there for the baby. Maybe distracted by TV, video games, sleeping. Ksm [/QUOTE]
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